The Collaborative Relationship

✓ How do you talk about something bothering you, in a way that does NOT make someone defensive?
✓ How do you bring up a complaint that creates actual resolution - not just temporary appeasement?
✓ How do you bring up your needs in a way that is NOT a zero sum game (where it fees like your needs vs their needs)?
✓ How do you express a desire for more closeness in a way that creates more closeness, instead of pushing someone further away?
✓ What's the difference between codependency, hyper-independence, and inter-dependence?
✓ Why does collaboration have so much potency in resolving conflict & resentment - and how?
✓ Examples of using collaboration to resolve deep-seated issues
✓ What gets in the way of healthy relating?
✓ Practical ways to move into collaborative, healthy, soulful intimacy
✓ How does this all relate to the dating process?
✓ The 8 Pillars of Healthy Relationships
✓ The 5 Areas of Mastery for Healthy, Collaborative Intimacy
✓ The 3 Levels of Integration & Embodiment
Q&A: I also answer these 3 questions:
“How to best identify when a relationship is a 'lost cause' and when it can be helped through these techniques?”
“Could you give tips or examples on sharing emotions in a way that is not overwhelming to the other person?”
“What are some things that help someone become less controlling - what might help them integrate the wound that wants to control others?”